After done admiring my new cases, I read this book "Koala Kumal" from my favorite author, Raditya Dika. In one of the chapter, there's a story about long distance relationship when he decided to continue his study at Adelaide. His girlfriend said that she heard of many stories that LDR are not gonna work. She said that she's afraid that at one point they might break up because they met someone else. Turned out, their relationship worked just fine for another 2 years, but the one who finally broke tre relationship was the girl, because that she finally met someone else. It's funny how things work and how someone broke their own commitment. The things that seems okay turned out to be bad. We will never predict the outcome of a condition, but as long as it is something that you really want to try and you can't stop thinking about it, then it worths the try.
Just like me... Experienced the LDR twice. Happy at the first phases, just like when he sang me a song and playing guitar just before he departed, how he asked me to be his wife through sms. Sms was the only media that time, when we were in the same car with his parents on the way to sending me home.
As soon as were were officially an LDR couple, worriness appreared in the middle of the relationship, when the reality wasn't happened as expected, just like when we didn't talk to each other as much as we used to be, and that was when we finally realized that we weren't able to handle LDR, that finally led to a break ups at the end. Ironic, yes! But, that is life.
Life is all about trials and errors, for each failure we experienced, for each wrong decisions we have made, we have to take full consequences of it, and when we finally able to stand up again, we will indeed stronger than before.
So, let's never be afraid of making mistakes.
Let's cheers for the mistakes that we have made and for the mistakes we are about to make! :)
SP
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