Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Delicious Ambiguity

I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity...-Gilda Radner 

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Tuesday, November 11, 2014

The Art of Thin Slicing

Have you ever been in a situation when you just met someone and you just know right away that you guys gonna make good companions or you just met someone and you just don't feel comfortable to be around them? You can't explain why but you just know something is wrong and you just don't want to be associated with them? It's called as gut-feeling. 

This is what the "Blink" book is all about: snap judgement and thin-slicing. Everyday we are exposed with thousand of information, which by then stored in our mind both consciously and subconsciously. Just imagine how much information we have stored during our lifetime.

When we are faced in a situation to make a quick decision or judgement, a small part of our brain located right behind our nose (ventromedial), picks up the neccessary information and help us determining the right judgement. Can you imagine how useful this thing is? Sometimes we just cannot afford the time, money or effort for data gathering in such short period.

But what if our snap judgement proved to be wrong? There's a theory called "The Warren Harding Error". Warren Harding is America's 29th President (1921-1923).  He was elected more about his good looks instead of his leading ability. It wasn't until his death in 1923 (caused by stroke), people found out all the corruption and marital scandals during his terms. Warren Harding is voted as America's worst president in the history.

Somehow this reminds me of the last president election happened last July between the 2 candidates. Little did I know about any real information about the candidates. I only got the information from the newspaper, social media articles and also word of mouths informations from many friends and families.
However, I chose the one which appear better in my eyes. I know that in political field, image can be made and faked. However, for certain thing I just believe in my snap-judgement.
I wish that I made the right decision on this.

I believe we made this Warren Harding error so many times. Sometimes, someone who appear to be unattractive at the first place can be so much amusing by the time we get to know them better, or someone who we thought very nice turned out to be mean when facing the difficult situation.
The more we get to know different kind of people, the more experiece of thin-slicing and snap judgement ability we will have. It's good for us. Imho.

I know that it's not the right thing to judge a book by its cover, but a cover suppose to be the only indicator of what the book is all about, isn't it? Hahaha confusing, isn't it?
Anyway, let's just believe in our inner voice. The only voice that matters in the end.

Good night, Peeps! Happy Tuesday for tomorrow...oops...today! :)

SP

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Monday, November 10, 2014

Paradise

Heard this song for so many times, but just got to know the title tonight. Thanks to Sound Hound for this!:)

PARADISE - SEIKO MATSUDA: http://youtu.be/Belxo9UhQxg

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Sunday Movie Night

It's sunday movie kinda night. Just finished watching 2 movies. "The Fault in Our Stars", the one I been wanted to watch since last June and "Sex Tape", the one I wanted to watch while I was in LA, I finally finished them all tonight.

"The Fault in Our Stars", a movie based on a best selling book written by John Green has been very touching.

A love story between a 16-year old girl, Hazel Grace Lancester who suffered from the tyrrhoid spreading to lung cancer with a 18-year old boy, Augustus Waters, who amputated one of his leg because of cancer, which finally spreading to his upper part of the body.
They meet each other while attending the support group, and so they starting to hangout together and they agreed to read each others' favorite novel. "An Imperial Affliction" has been Hazel's favorite novel, a story about a girl who suffered from Cancer paralled to Hazel's experience. They find the ending was frustating and so they write to the author, Peter Van Houten who had migrated to Amsterdam and hadn't been heard ever since. Hazel wrote to him for many times with no response, while Gus luckily got replied by his assistance, Lidewij who finally invited them to Amsterdam to discuss about the book. The meeting didn't go well, but they shared a romantic journey in there.
 
As soon as they got back, Gus invited Isaac, his best friend and Hazel to his pre-funeral, where they deliver their eulogies they prepared. Gus died eight days later, at his funeral, Hazel is astonished to find Van Houten in attendance. He tells her he maintained correspondence with Gus after Amsterdam and Gus demanded he attend his funeral to make up for the spoiled trip. He tells Hazel that his novel is based on the experiences of Houten's daughter Anna, who died of cancer at a young age. He gives Hazel a piece of paper. Hazel, still upset with his behavior in Amsterdam, crumples up the paper, and asks him to leave. Later, while talking to Isaac, Hazel learns that Gus has asked Houten to help him write his eulogy. She retieves the crumpled paper and read Gus's words, which state his existance of death and his love for Hazel.

These are the several quotes from the movie I recall:

"Pain demands to be felt. Without pain how could we know te joy?"

"Some poeple don't understand the promises they're making when they make them"

"You have a choice in this world, I believe, about how to tell sad stories, and we made the funny choice."

"Living our best life today"

"You gave me a forever within the numbered days. I cannot tell you how thankful I am for our little infinity"

Such a sad yet sweet story, isn't it? I cried a bucket watching this.
They have everything, except good health. While on the other hand, we posses our good health, but often complaining about so many things.
This movie simply teach us about being grateful with our already fulfilling life. Another highly recommeded movie to watch! Prepare your tissues!:)

SP

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Saturday, November 8, 2014

Extraordinary Mike

Yay I made my first nano block! It's Mike, the Monster University. 

Capek bener bikin nanoblock ini. Butuh kesabaran dan ketelitian tingkat tinggi untuk menata kepingan-kepingan block yang super kecill. Tadi sempat salah ditengah-tengah, hingga akhirnya harus menata lagi dari awal. Eughh... Tapi senang juga setelah jadi lho..serasa merasakan kesuksesan setelah habis bekerja keras. Huahahaha pardon my lebayness! 

By the way, can you spot something odd from Mike's eye? Yes, the top eye area is green instead of white. Entah kenapa, hitungan block putihnya tidak pas tadi, sehingga kuganti warna hijau. Tapi untung saja tidak keliatan, kan? It's the extraordinary Mike with different eye color...Hihihii
Now, I'm thinking to buy Sullivan to be Mike's friend. Hmm..to buy or not to buy? I'll think about it! 

Btw...happy weekend, everyone! :)

SP


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SeventhofNovember

Watched Fei Yu Qing charity concert at Grand City with my family tonight.

Saw a lot of my friends' parents, but not any of my friends I saw. Lol
Not really a surprise actually, because Fei Yu Qing is a Taiwanese ballad singer and also Asia's most famous evergreen singer in the 70s, therefore all the audiences was most likely coming from this era. Despite the fact that it was not a modern with up to date nowadays pop songs live  concert, and very less of the song lists I knew,  but I was enjoying the concert from the beginning until the end.

Everyone is happy and apparently it's a good day to welcome a saturday.

NB: Today happens to be my bestfriends birthday. Loving our more than a decade of friendship. #anong #chumi Xx

SP


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Wednesday, November 5, 2014

Let's Do Some Exercise

Just got this from a friend, and I feel a bit guilty of not exercising tonight. I chose watching OUIJA instead of exercising. But tomorrow will definitely hit the gym. It'a payback time! 

Feeling tired these past few days. Got a test need to be passed within this week and still feeling pity for a customer who got stroke attack just few days ago. 

Hoping things to turn better by tomorrow. And Yes, I choose to be happy tomorrow. 
A less happier me is going to sleep now to turn into much happier me by the time I wake up.
Good night, everyone!

SP

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