Voila!

By this time last week, I was watching Wicked musical show at MBS, Singapore & now here I am in Surabaya getting back with all the routines.

A week has passed by, people come & go, and certain excitements happened.
C'est la vie!

I wonder how wonderful it would be if there's a magic button to press, so that every time we want those certain moments or people to stay, just by pressing the button, they will stay as long as we wish them to be. Voila!!

Well...I just got back from the evening tea time with a long lost buddy of mine & we discussed about the art of waiting as one of the topics.

Here's more or less the brief conversation were about:

S: Me, F: Friend

F: Silv, in your opinion, when is the right time for us to stop waiting for something?

S: For what term is it, buddy?

F: No specific term, it can be like pursuing for a career path or waiting for someone or waiting or waiting for a result for a case.

S: It must be someone that you meann....Do I get it right??
Tell me how you guys going on?? :p

F: How do you knoww??

S: I know you too well, buddy! Haha

F: Oh well, you get it right. I'm in a situation of waiting for something blur, speaking of which I don't know where this relationship is heading to. & I just do not know how to get this stopped.
What do you think?

S: I think that you have to set up a time limit. During the time, you have to see his efforts. Cos I believe when someone wants to be a part of your life, then they have to make an effort to do so. Don't bother reserving a space in your heart for someone who doesn't make an effort to stay. But of course, you have to make some efforts too. If everything is still blurry beyond the time limit, then it's time to stop & move on.

F: But, how if I can't stop?

S: For some cases, we have to use our logic instead our heart, buddy!
Cos, there's a time when you feel so tired that makes you think enough is enough. I think, it's the time when you have to stop. Cos it's useless to wait for something that you know will never gonna happen.

F: Is it hard? & how to get it stopped?

S: I'm not a relationship expert buddy, but I'm sure by the time you'll know how to do it.

F: Is it?? Well...I try. Thankss buddyy..

S: Always remember the art of waiting. Wait for something or someone that worth to be waited, but don't wait for something or someone unreachable! Good luck, buddy!
There's a plenty of fish out there. Happy fishing!

F: Let's fish together :)

I don't know whether it's the right advise or not, but I just couldn't think of any better advices for her situation.
Do you guys have similar experience and better advices for this case? Feel free to share the ideas please :)

Just now I feel like going back to Singapore, and a friend of mine offering me a free ticket for watching F1 in Singapore for this September & I directly agreed. So,'til I see you again, Sg!! Yippieee:)

That's it for the intermezzo for today. Good night & smell ya later, buddiess! ⌣｀)づ ‎۰۰