Last monday I went to Angie's daughter 1 year-old birthday party.
The courtesy goes to Katarina Asalim. Same way happens to proud parents Hery & Angie, here comes the proud Auntie Silva as well. :)
Met lots of hi-school buddies there.
Birthday party has always been a great time to have lots of blah & haha or hihi with friends, but when it comes to old friends as the attendants, the joy doubles up! :)
I and Katarina's mommy have been great buddies since the second year of high school, so we have been friends for 12 years, a turn of a zodiac, and it still counting on. Somehow there's this magical feeling how time turned everything up. I witnessed many events of her earlier days. I still remember there was a time of those single days, couple days, broken hearted days, crazy party days, friendship days, single days again, couple days again,& when finally all the things were falling at the right places between them, engagement party finally happened that lead to the wedding party right after then.
I remember sometime in several years ago, someone asking me about how I feel when each of my bestie is starting to getting down the aisle & racing me up? Will I just lowering down my standard or just picking up any guy in order to catch up with the others as many has done so..
It was quite shocking to be asked such question.
However, as I age more...this kind of question repeatedly sound to my ears. In most of every parties, people will keep asking when would be my turn, & some would doubting my single status & sometime they will judging me up, accusing me this & that while the facts they do not know me that well. Later on, they were initiated to introduce me to the right prospects, which somehow I think their definition of prospects is different with mine.
So, it somehow appear to me that they were being pathetic of me not having a boyfriend by this age! *sigh* (¯―¯٥)
I don't think there's something wrong with being single. As there's always a yin to every yang, there's this joy of my single life. A True Joy! Reallyyy!!
And I believe many good things in life are worth awaiting.
As I have heard so many times before, I believe when the time has come, things will come easy & smooth, but if obstacles happened along the way or even when you have tried but you still cannot get the whole picture of everything, and even you can ask yourself "What's the point of me doing all of this?!". Well, I believe it's a sign that lining it up to an end might be the best decision.
Cos I believe that the best thing in life will naturally happen, & thus insistence will never gonna work.
Well..Tonight is certainly not my hangout schedule, so as soon as the working hours ended, I was heading home.
While some friends would be enjoying their tennis game, movies, dinner date, massage etc,
I am having my own way to have fun.
It is to chill in Silva Island at the end of the day contemplate & write things up while sipping my fave camomile tea & listening to my fave music.
I found this rewarding & blissful.
Ok then..I will stop writing and let the bliss endures before the night ends.
Good night, peeps! ^^
Hoahmmm,
Queen Silva
